I'm Back !!!

Dear Frenz...

I'm BACK!!!

Please believe what you are reading now... After a long-lasting 10-months-hibernation days, finally I decided to let my blog live a brand new life again!

The world keeps on changing. Flashback to the past 9 months, there are some tremendous changes in my life. (I think you know I mean...). Due to some reasons, I can't manage to blog frequently (even hardly to send an e-mail...) until now the condition getting better.

However, I can't promise this blog can keep up-to-date all the time. Don't ever belief a medical undergraduate when he promises that he always free enough to do that so. Just be patient and don't bombard me in chatterbox when I fail to update... Ok???

Wanna know what happened to me during the past 9 months?

Wanna know how's my life here??

Check it out!!!

WELCOME BACK !!!

生命

生命真的如此脆弱吗？

一个生性开朗、热爱运动的好老师、好邻居，原本打算退休后能安享悠闲的生活，但天意弄人，任谁也不会料到有这样的结局。。。

犹记得去年长假还看到他去散步、打高尔夫球，实在难以想象半年后的今天他会离开。。。

癌症！又是癌症！这几年这可恶家伙已相继带走了几个我身边的人。。。如果不是亲眼目睹那被病魔折腾的痛苦，真的很难相信生命原来只不过是那么脆弱、那么地容易失去。。。

或许，离开真的是一种解脱。。。

但愿他们能够安息。。。

Why?????

为什么人总爱相信美丽的谎言，
却从不愿接受残酷的事实？

为什么人总爱为自己找寻各式各样的借口，
却从不肯诚实地面对自己的软弱？

为什么人总爱拿自己与别人比较，
却从不看看自己是什么“料”？

为什么人的快乐只建筑在超越别人，
而不是超越自己？

为什么人总爱为自己设下种种的框框，
却从不给自己一个机会看看框外的风景？

为什么人明知道自己已沉沦在自己的框框时，
却还依旧眷恋着那忽隐忽现的幻影？

为什么人总爱把自己的固执，诠释为“坚持”？

为什么人总爱把自己的幻想，诠释为“理想”？

为什么人总爱把自己的墨守成规，诠释为“安分守己”？

为什么人总爱把“接受事实”，诠释为“向现实低头”？

为什么人总认为自家的牡丹，就算再香、再艳丽，
也永远比不上邻家的向日葵？

为什么人总爱欺骗自己？

人啊人。。。你们都有答案吗？？？

我很累。。。真的很累。。。

不想多想。。。

Lazy....

明日复明日，
明日何其多？
日日待明日，
万事成蹉跎！

Hey, idiot!!! For how many years u've learned these few rows of chinese words??? U've learned it since primary school level,rite?... But u never practise...

Come on... Mr.Yap...

It's time to make a change....

TIME waits for NOBODY...

Do it NOW, ACTION IS POWER!!!

Today in last year....(18 May 2005)

18 May 2005... This day is my last day served as a banquet server in The Ritz-Carlton Kuala Lumpur.... my 3rd part time job ....

It is a memorable n priceless experience... Hoteliers' life very busy, yet interesting. I've learned a lot, such as some basic knowledge bout dining and hospitality... but the most important thing is the inter-personal skills that i really need it in my career in future...

Here, i would like to highlight a few ppls that really teach me a lot during my 6 months in RCKL, accordingly:-

Mr.Julianus Gintang (Banquet, IRD manager)- a very responsible n hardworking Kadazan guy from Sabah. I respect him so much... U r so great, Jul!!!

Mr.Raj (Banquet Captain) - he is my 1st boss in Rossini's... work smart, but only work hard sometimes...haha....

Mr.Visva (Rossini's Supervisor) - a good leader and has his own theorey on management...

Rossini's and IRD team (James, Mat, Wardi, Sheila, Kak Salma, Barbara, Khew, William... and so on) - Glad to be ur team member....

Main Kitchen (Chef Philip Mimbimi, Chef Lee, Chef Anton.... commis team Saladi, Keong, Fuad.... and so on) - miss ur cheese omelette so much!!!

Li Yen n chinese kitchen (Ms Rose, 蓉姐, Shereen, Kim foong, Fennie, Sifu and so on) - 谢谢你们的关照！！！

Ms Josephine Raikuna (F&B Director) - a powerful n capable lady from Jamaica (if i'm not mistaken).... Salute for her excellent leadership quality...

And some others such as trainees (Basira, Cynthia, Farid), bartenders (Sara, Aung Hien), laundry (the aunties who take care of uniforms, napkins, table cloths....)....- Miss u all...

Thx for everything!!!

感冒。。。

连日奔波、天气又变坏，感冒终于“找上门”了。。。
其实早在前几天身体已发出“警报”（又伤风、又咳嗽。。。），惟自己一直当它是小事，结果现在。。。唉。。。。

还记得以前生病，总逃不过老妈的“法眼”，一定被强制去看医生；这两年一个人在外，“没皇管”，生病也懒得去看医生，喝包感冒茶，盖被睡一觉便“搞定”。。。

外头的生活总没有在家般温暖，但相对的，生病的次数反而减少了（因为常提醒自己：“叶彦生，你没时间生病！”。。。）3rd sem 的生活幽闲，总算有时间病了。。。

人，总是一种依赖性高，但却越挫越强的动物，可不是吗？在舒适的环境下总多病痛，反而在没依赖、凡是都必须靠自己的情况下才“自发性”地学会坚强。。。

但，一个人躺在病榻上的日子，的确有点“阴功”。。。不能到处乱跑，独自留在BURHAN养病，只能用一个字可以形容：“lonely....."
我就是一个那么“犯贱”的人，平时喜欢独来独往，没人约束的生活。。。看！现在落得如此“凄凉”，真的有点“抵死”。。。

窗外又下起大雨，很冷。。。

可怜虫啊可怜虫，祝你早日康复吧！！！

BATU PAHAT ---> AYER HITAM

三年的时光过得真快，转眼间姐姐又毕业了。。。

昨天，爸妈去巴株巴辖为姐姐载细软回家，适逢我又没课上，所以也顺道跟他们下柔佛一趟。一大清早与他们在UKM会合后，我们便驱车向南方直奔。。。
原来从UKM到巴株巴辖只需要大约3小时的车程。收拾好细软后，姐姐就拜别已培育她3年的巴株巴辖师范学院，顺便当导游带我们到市区跑一趟。。。

这是我第一次踏足“凿石城”－巴株巴辖。她是一个不错的地方。。。民风朴素、人口适中、设施齐全，又没有像大城市般拥挤，还出产不少名人呢！（如拿督翁、敦胡先翁、林吉祥。。。。 啊，差点忘了，我COURSEMATE 阿CY兄也是MADE IN BATU PAHAT的！！！）值得一提的是，那里的食物相当便宜，但如果你是北马人的话，那就必须迁就一下南马人的口味咯！

回KL之前，我们顺道逗留在“黑水镇”－亚逸希淡（AYER HITAM）。（离巴株巴辖大约30公里）这个地方同样值得一提，为什么呢？她只不过是一个很普通的小市镇，特别的地方是。。。沿着大路边可以看到很多档口摆卖mashimaro, garfield, winnie-the-pooh, mickey..... 等等各式各样的卡通“公仔”。。。由最小型的到3、4尺高的都有，而且价格还很便宜！！！（当然，肯定是翻版货啦。。。）

这下可看到我们眼都花了。。。“手痒痒”想买，但自己又没收集“公仔”的习惯。。。送人？可以送给谁？妈妈？（sorry，auntie你超龄了。。。）姐姐？（阿志城哥会送给她。。。）妹妹？（已经摆到满间房都是。。。）弟弟？（如果送GAMES的CD他们会更高兴。。。）女朋友？（很无奈，我没有。。。）结果，最后当然没买咯！

很想抱孙的妈妈买了一对毛茸茸的卡通拖鞋（超可爱！）给蔚蔚（邻家auntie的孙女）; 姐姐买了一个手机套。。。妈妈可能怕我3rd SEM一个人睡会寂寞，所以买了一个抱枕（有卡通的）给我。。。哈哈！！！总算有收获。。。

我们逗留了不久便启程赶回KL。。。接下来又是沉闷又累人的车程了（这天又刷新了我的驾驶记录：10小时内驾了超过700km...)
到了姑姑的家便累到呼呼大睡了。。。虽然累，但这趟柔佛之行还不错！！

One day trip to Serdang

It was a wonderful sunday morning. As usual, i woke up early, doing nothing. I knew i must plan something for myself, or else i would be damm boring for the whole day.

An good idea pop-up in my mind : SERDANG........ For UKM, UPM, Uniten's students, "Serdang "is no longer a new term, even i oso go there quite frequently. (usually fetch by others) This time will be a little bit different... I WANNA GO THERE BY MY OWN HONDA WAVE 100.....

Quite shameful to say that eventhough i've been study here for almost 1 year, but i still can't really familiar with the ways to nearest city and town (such as serdang, Seri Kembangan, Cheras....). This area is surrounded by many expressways (Kajang Silk, Sg.Besi, MRR2, KL-Seremban, ... whatever lah....) So confusing....Haiz....

After my breakfast at Ameeelari (mamak stall), the journey began... I took the shortest & easiest way--- N-S Highway. Riding motorcycle on expressway is totally a different experience then driving car... I felt myself like WAH-DEE (Andy Lau in his previous movie 《烈火战车》 long time ago) racing in Sepang F1 circuit....

Besides maintaining speed around 100km/h, i had to be so alert to the vehicles came from behind, coz motorists in Klang Valley usually 'pretend' can't notice motorcyclists.... (am i rite???) For freshie motocyclist like me, this is a new challenge... Once careless, say BYE BYE to this wonderful world lorrr.....

Finally, arrived Serdang KTM safely....(my technique not bad...hehe). Next---> South City Plaza, stayed for a while then went back... (so "无聊" rite???)

Since i had to back to UKM before 1pm, so i can't stay longer at Serdang. I thought i could follow the opposite way to go back... but actually not...
The signboards were so confusing (becoz still under construction)...
When i saw the signboard with arrow pointing to "KLCC", i knew that i was in DEEP SHIT already... Wrong-way!!!

Then... i saw "Salak Selatan","Cheras","Petaling Jaya".... Shitt...!!!
I travelled quite a long distance, just to find a way to U-turn.... At the same time, another problem arised... i noticed that my fuel indicator approaching "E" (stands for EMPTY, not ENOUGH...).... Damm it!!!

When i was located quite near from KL (i think so...), suddenly i noticed a U-turn sign....(relieved.....lov u so much, "U-turn"...) Finally, i got the rite way back....

On the way back to UKM, fuel level critical.... no petrol station around (Petronas, Shell, Esso... all disappears....haiz...) Luckily, i found a station at Bangi Lama... or else... i would be in big trouble...thx god!!!

For me, Serdang- nothing special... but this trip is a new experience... it let me get familiar with the place nearby UKM... Next time, i'll go further, for sure!!!

Say "NO" to 3rd Sem

Finally, my 2nd semester in UKM ended-up with the "nightmare" (final exam)... For the others, it is the beginning of a honey moon 2 months vacation; but for all the engineering 1st year students in UKM, it is a beginning of a DISASTER--- 3rd Sem....

I wonder why our faculties's adminstration made such a suck decision to force the students stay back just becoz of a single subject... it is very time wasting, money wasting....whatever lah....

See what happen now..... everybody enjoying their holiday, only we have to hanging around UKM... doing nothing besides attending labs once a week.... Part-time job??? Maybe... but still looking for it... (very hard to get part-time bcoz of the stupid lab schedules...)

My frens in hometown will having unity BBQ tonite (very sad.... can't join... ) They starts to send me some stupid SMS (to describe how happy they are n enjoying their roasted chicken wings....haiz...)

Wat can i do???.... i can only blogging lonely in my K11A-323....
If i become Vice-Chancellor one day (day-dreaming again....), for sure i'll give a big slap to the guys who plan for such type of suck disaster (force student to stay back during sem-break)....

"SAY NO! TO 3RD SEM"

WELCOME

Dear my beloved family, friends, enemies (perhaps... but seems i don't have) and everybody who interested, welcome to my blog....

Actually, i never think that i'll become a blogger until my dearest friends in Kampar - MDBC starts to establish our own blog... It let me discover a brand new way to express my thoughts, my perceptions, as well as recording my pasts, presents, and future....

I'm a very lazy guys who never do something to jot down special and memorable things in my life... This blog is my 21th birthday gift that i give to myself. I hope that i'll keep it up (haha.... although i never complete a single diary for these 21 years....)

Since the day i ended-up my secondary school life, my simple life encountered many changes. These experiences more or less have let me grown up and learned a lot.... It's important to have some records bout the things and ppl around, my thoughts, as my world keep on altering everyday....

Somehow, i really expect ur warm respond... pls kindly drop me some comments in this blog..... Hv a nice day....